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Either Or

Peter Vanderveen addresses "is Christian faith constraining or liberating?"


RYG's Full Schedule

Rebecca Northington shares the full schedule of our youth and invites you to an important screening.


A Word About Stewardship

2024 campaign begins

The Unending Journey of Christian Formation

Winnie Smith addresses the life-long learning of a Christian.


Family Promise - Community Connections

Jo Ann Jones challenges us to be flexible with our hospitality.

And the upcoming Community Connections events.

Coming Home

Our new Music Director Andrew Senn shares his thoughts and emotions of returning to the Episcopal Church--his true home.


Christmas Village

Our fun-filled and fabulous shopping extravaganza. Get all the information.


Dates to Remember

Either Or

By Peter Vanderveen

Here’s a question that’s best answered without pausing to think. Let your response be more like a reflex. —Is the Christian faith essentially constraining or is it liberating? 


My guess is that most would say that Christianity is a narrow way. It’s a discipline in search of a reward. God has made salvation possible, but it’s our responsibility to earn it. This can be done principally by confessing Jesus as Lord — the great evangelical cause. And, if Jesus is so recognized, then what follows is our obedience to what Jesus commanded. Christianity realigns our lives by impressing on us the fundamental importance of doing what is right in God’s eyes. It is the constant work of choosing this rather than that. Faith involves the continual discernment of what is singularly good, over against the many, many ways of lapsing into what is corrupt or denigrating or just downright evil. And, correspondingly, Sunday — the Sabbath — is an obligation, and the goal of worship is instruction, and, over time, the value of faith is that it can help us become better people: all with the hope that God will eventually judge us favorably. 


For many who don’t identify as Christians this is also the view they have, but with a decidedly negative twist. The disciplines of Christianity are for them a suffocating set of doctrines that squeeze the joy out of life. It is commonly trusted that people don’t need the threat of God as a judge to prompt them to choose the right over the wrong. They certainly don’t need to be scolded as a means to improvement. And Sundays are better spent doing other things. This perspective makes Christianity a hard sell.


There’s certainly much in the Bible that could be used to support this view, and it’s been part of the tradition since the Church’s inception. A lot of baggage accumulates in two thousand years. But it can also be argued that Christian faith arose as the very antithesis to the constraints of the faith in Jesus’ time. Jesus saved his harshest criticisms for the religious authorities who insisted on strict adherence to the law. He wondered at their lack of mercy or even the merest understanding of human frailty and division. His intent was to fulfill the law, not by keeping it, but by overturning it. The law can only show us who we are rather than how we should be or act. And what it shows is that we are deeply mired in conflicts from which we cannot extricate ourselves. And there is no discipline available to us that can undo our many failures, no matter how valiant our efforts. So what is needed isn’t the authoritative arm of constraint; what’s needed is wholly different. What’s needed is redemption, the kind of redemption that overrides judgment. And on this we should be clear: the very essence of redemption is getting something that we don’t deserve. 


Redemption, of course, means nothing if we aren’t already aware of how we have fallen short. The law serves a purpose, but it’s not an end in itself. It’s the means by which we can discover, repeatedly, how God chooses to be preferential to us. For redemption is God’s declaration that we are even more important than the full summation of all our wrongs. Even our greatest evil can’t remove us from God’s grace. Jesus’ only lasting word to his disciples — and thus to all who would come after him — was peace. He announced it without conditions. He said it is given, by God, without any requirement on our part to be found worthy of it. It is the gift at the core of our lives, more central that any responsibility. And thus, the Christian faith is, first and always, an exuberant expression of gift — more than can be measured, more than can be imagined. And the Sabbath isn’t an onus; it’s our celebration of our liberation from all that diminishes us. It’s our acknowledgement that God has chosen to express his glory in and through us. The liturgy is never meant to be dour; it’s ecstatic — and a far cry from instruction alone.


Is this, however, how the church is understood by those who only look at us from a distance? Do they see in us the full depth and breadth of a joy that passes all understanding? What might be different if they did? More to the point, what might be different if we were fully convinced that the church simply makes life more abundant and enthralling and beautifully mysterious? 


 So much of what we do in all our programming is actually turned toward this end, whether in music or formation or the creation of community in fellowship, both within the parish and with those who would otherwise be strangers. Faith isn’t a duty; it’s more a fascination with the countless ways that good and God are present to us and in us. And if this is the case, wouldn’t it make sense to be unabashed in inviting others to experience the same joy?

Youth - RYG's Full Schedule

By Rebecca Northington

The Redeemer Youth Group began our Fall season with a family picnic on Sunday, September 17, welcoming back returning RYG families as well as many new families from around our greater community. It was a wonderful time to reunite with familiar faces and also a moment to realize the importance of a “third place” for students and their families. It has been three and half years since the onset of the pandemic, and kids and their parents seem to be hungry for something more: more community, more purpose, and more hope. The Church can, and should be, just such a place for those eager to wrestle with themes larger than the day-to-day hamster wheel that can be life, and that is just what RYG tries to do and to be. 


RYG had a strong 2022/2023 year wrestling with the theme of lamentation or lament. We tried to analyze the many ways suffering enters our lives and how we cope. Do we ignore our pain and the experiences that bring us sorrow? Or do we acknowledge, process, heal and figure out how to move forward to the best of our abilities? Do we ask for help, do we incorporate habits that bring us healing, do we surround ourselves with people who we trust to truly see us and walk with us in our pain? 


We studied the way artists cope with pain in their music, painting, poetry and film. We looked at the many ways scripture reveals stories of lament and considered the Bible as revelatory, not only in terms of helping us to understand who God is, but also in sharing with us who we are. We are a people who hurt, often as a result of our own choices. But hopefully we are also a people who learn, change, evolve and heal: all with God’s help. 


This program year we will be focusing on the theme of Surrender and the Glory that can come with that. The Bible shows us again and again that our own hubris often brings us pain. It is when we acknowledge that we are not ultimately in control, but must rely on our friends, our families, and some higher power that many of us would call God; that is when the surrender can bring us hope, and I believe Glory!


This program year will include again our monthly trips to St. Francis Inn in Kensington where we will serve the community there. Additionally we are growing a relationship with the St. James school and will of course try to be regulars with Family Promise meal prep and visiting here at Redeemer. We also plan to do our own community building through ropes courses, movie outings, apple picking, movie screenings and special speakers from Laurel House and The Liv Project. 


We will be hosting a screening of the acclaimed documentary My Sister Liv on October 29 at 4 pm, followed by a Q and A with the filmmaker and a panel of experts on mental health and suicide prevention. This event is open to The Redeemer community as well as our larger Main Line community, and the hope is to broaden the conversation regarding the mental health crisis among young adults, as well as the impact of Social Media on their developing minds. This is an opportunity for us as a faith community to more broadly care for all people in our community, and to recognize the loneliness of our times, and the power of coming together. 


Surrender is a strange concept to spend a year on; it connotes weakness or failure. But it is intentionally chosen as it asks all of us to relinquish the illusion that we can do it all alone, that we can bear the weight of our lives without God, or without family and friends, or community. It means we can confess who we are in all our raw, imperfect truth—and be loved anyway. This is the work we attend to at RYG, with a very special collection of young adults who are intentionally developing their best selves, within a community of love, trust, and humor. Building a group like this doesn’t happen without a degree of surrender, and a whole lot of hope!

A Word About Stewardship


Did you know it is that time of year, for not only pumpkin spice everything, but also for Stewardship 2024? As Peter announced in church recently, the Stewardship Committee has been thoughtfully planning and preparing for the upcoming campaign. The Redeemer is so fortunate to have had such an incredible response to Stewardship over these past few challenging years. The consistency, as well as the breadth and depth of participation, has produced significant growth in the number of participants and the number of participants who increased their pledge. We have seen a significant rise in both median and average gifts. Thank you to everyone who responded adventurously over these past few years and we hope you will prayerfully reflect on the positive impact your support has on our church community and the greater community we support when you receive the kick off mailings and emails in the coming weeks. 

The Unending Journey of Christian Formation

By Winnie Smith


“You don’t need to have all the answers - it’s more about being curious and learning alongside the kids.”


This language was included in several of the emails I sent asking for Church School teachers this year. It is, in part, an attempt to demystify teaching—to make it less

scary—but it is also completely true. The most important thing a Church School teacher can do for the children in their class is approach every Sunday with an open mind and with their own wonderings. Wondering, after all, is what the Godly Play curriculum is based on. Godly Play is a decades-old children’s curriculum that seeks to help learners “make meaning through story, wonder, and play” (godlyplayfoundation.org). Similarly, our Redeemer mission statement reminds us that as a community, we “worship, learn and grow together.” This is what makes a Christian community: We spend time in prayer and praise together; we socialize and step out into the broader community together; and we learn together. And by learning, we grow. 


This process of worshiping, learning, and growing, never ends. Each week we gather for Sunday services, each December for Christmas and each Spring for Holy Week and Easter. Those celebrations and the stories we recount are repeated, but every year we hear them differently. There is a rhythmic, cyclical nature to the Christian life. Rather than seeing this as stagnation—as a repetitive process—what if we saw it as a continual opportunity for development? For growth? For ever-changing understandings of the nature of God and of God’s work in the world?


About eighteen months ago, when I began learning about The Church of the Redeemer and had a few initial conversations with Peter, he told me about a project underway called the Arc of Formation. He sent me pages and pages of tiny print excel sheets outlining all the markers and stages of spiritual development that he and the staff here had identified over years of discussion and research. The idea, as I understood it, was to create a document that would serve as a tool for spiritual growth, rather than a test of aptitude for different ages and levels. Christian formation, after all, is not linear. It is cyclical, with lots of room for bumps and jumps along the way. Yes, we hear the same stories every year or every three years, but our own stages in life and experiences affect the way we understand those stories. 


Church School classes began a few weeks ago and on our first Sunday, I found myself in unfamiliar territory: standing in a classroom in front of about a dozen young children. I have spent a lot of time with youth and adults, but very little with the youngest among us, and I was intimidated. But in the week leading up to class, as I prepared and read through the day’s lesson, I was struck by the simplicity of it and that that simplicity was not off-putting, but rather, inviting. We were to discuss the “Circle of the Year,” a lesson which presents the church calendar as a circle. Each week of the year is represented by a small colored tile: we begin with purple - Advent - then transition to the white of Christmas, then the green of Epiphany, and so on, ending the year on the last green tile before returning again to purple for Advent. The Gregorian calendar is in a way circular, too, but I think people in the secular world have grown accustomed to thinking of time linearly. Time moves on and moves forward. That is true, but the beauty of the Christian calendar and year is that it repeats, allowing us to learn and relearn, to explore time and again the stories that form us as Christians.


The kids in class got it. I think the visual aid of a circle made sense to them, as it makes sense to me. They could jump into the calendar at any point and move through it from there. What an apt metaphor for the Arc of Formation. Everyone’s journey to, in, and around faith is different. We cannot know where a person’s walk with God begins—and we believe it never ends—so how can we expect everyone to follow the same trajectory? Instead, I hope you all know that wherever you are in your understanding of faith and your relationship with God, it is exactly where you are supposed to be. And you are invited and encouraged to continue exploring. 


I hope that every one of you, from age 3 to age 103, will open yourself up to wonder when you come to church. There are so few opportunities in our day-to-day existence that allow us to sit in the murkiness of unknowing; to hear a story or a sermon and let the wonder of it wash over us; to return to that same Old Testament story, or that same parable, the one you have heard dozens of times, and to hear it differently; to “ponder anew what the almighty can do” (Hymn 390, “Praise to the Lord, the Almighty”). The work of Christian formation is ongoing - there is no level of competency that makes one a real Christian, no test to pass. Instead, it is a journey of constant discovery and beauty, and one that God is continually calling us to. Will you listen? Will you go?

Family Promise - Community Connections

By Jo Ann Jones

Since March of this year, the Community Connections Committee has recognized that it had an opportunity to reinvigorate its work by supporting members of the community through sustained working relationships together with financial support. 


The Committee envisioned greater potential for outreach by recognizing our own humanity together with the humanity of those we seek to serve. Being in relationship with others underscores our inter-dependance, one to another. As Desmond Tutu wrote, “A person is human precisely in being enveloped in the community of other human beings. To be is to participate. The greatest good here is not independence but sharing interdependence.”


Hope to arouse the interest, support and enthusiasm of the congregation, the CCC sponsored an adult forum this past Spring, underscoring how Redeemer members engaged with Family Promise participants. Adults, teens and children were part of the activities of that week. Meals, stories, and visits with one another were shared. Even Happy and Sophie met and played with the children.


Would that we could always have such a warm and enjoyable time together. But life is not like that. When we hosted three families from Family Promise the week of Labor Day, the interaction was not quite so free. It was a difficult time for the families, as school was starting and the routine of summer came to an end. Our journey with one another cannot always be a pleasant or easy one, but we nevertheless can serve as companions on the way: open to each other and respectful of what each person may need day by day to live as fully and as humanly as each can. 


In our post-hosting meeting we challenged ourselves to be more flexible in our hospitality. We may adjust which classrooms to use for families to sleep in, so that the light of the building does not interfere with a restful night. For mothers with small children, we may need to consider first what those mothers want their children to eat over and above the delicious and balanced meals we might wish them to have. We all need to observe rules that ensure the safety of everyone. As we live together we all grow in learning what makes each human being human and how we may enhance that in each of us. 


Our next hosting opportunity is the week of October 22. You will just be reading this. We hope some of you will join the Community Connection Committee members and the families of Family Promise.

Community Connections Fall Preview

 

The Community Connections Committee (formerly Outreach Community Services) is making an effort to highlight the reciprocal nature of our work. In the process of providing food, shelter, clothing, necessities, and grants, we want to develop relationships and make connections with others: both people outside our parish and within our parish, realizing the mutual benefit gained when we share God’s grace.

 

Here is a preview of our CC activities for the Fall. Watch the weekly Redeemer News for details, or check the Hands On Community Connections Opportunities on the Redeemer website (https://www.theredeemer.org/hands-on).

 

  •  Christmas Village meetings on Mondays at 7 pm, beginning Sept. 18. All are invited.
  • St. Gabriel’s Lunch Program, 9-Noon, fourth Saturday of the month. Partner with members of St. Gabriel’s Mission, Roosevelt Boulevard, Philadelphia, to provide a nourishing lunch to our hungry brothers and sisters.
  • Showing of documentary celebrating the “Philadelphia 11,” Saturday, September 30, 2 pm. The film, which highlights the ordination of the first 11 women into The Episcopal Church, will premiere where it all started – The Church of the Advocate, Philadelphia.
  • Tour of ECS St. Barnabas Community Resource Center, date to be determined.
  • Episcopal Community Services Community Cook-Offs, St. Barnabas Community Resource Center, first and third Thursday of every month, 1:30-3 pm.
  • Episcopal Legal Aid Annual celebration, Thursday evening, October 5. ELA promotes access to justice by providing pro bono civil legal services to low-income residents of Philadelphia and the surrounding counties.
  • Family Promise of the Main Line guests join us during the week of October 22 to 29. Dinner, overnight, set-up and take-down hosts will be needed.
  • ECS marks its leadership transition with “Celebrating Tradition & Transformation,” a fundraising event on October 25.
  • “Darby Dinner” at Darby Mission, Tuesday, November 7. We’ll provide dinner and companionship and possibly join with guests to make First Aid Kits for people in the neighborhood.
  • Christmas Village, Friday and Saturday, November 17 and 18.


Coming Home

By Andrew Senn

I may be “new” to all of you, but The Redeemer is not “new” to me. Upon arriving in Philadelphia in 1997 to begin my studies at the Curtis Institute of Music, Michael Stairs became a fast friend and colleague. We shared a love of English cathedral organs as well our studies at Curtis.


Before my time at First Presbyterian Church, I served as the Director of the Girls’ Choir at St Peter’s Church in Morristown, NJ, commuting from Philadelphia. Dan Moriarty was another colleague and friend from the world of church music, and I would often accompany the Bryn Mawr Girls’ Choir at midweek Evensong. In fact, Dan and I worked together during those years to organize a wonderful Four Choirs Festival in Greenwich, CT with our respective choirs, alongside St Philip’s Cathedral, Atlanta, GA and the hometown choir in Greenwich.


For the purposes of this article, I will skip over quite a bit to get to the present (though I look forward to sharing all of that with you at an adult forum in November!).


On my first Sunday at The Redeemer, I can only describe it as coming home. Even after these many years serving First Presbyterian, every word from the BCP Eucharist rolled off my tongue without any hesitation. I have returned to a tradition with the most beautiful liturgical tapestry, woven together with movement, music, prayer, preaching, and Christ at the center.


The word “sanctuary” has several meanings. The two I find most important describe it as “a holy place” and “a shelter.” When we walk into a church, we are indeed walking into a holy place. A place where we feel connected to God and to one another, in a way that does not happen easily outside the church doors. At services like Evensong, we say the exact same words that have been said for almost 400 years and these words are a direct link, a holy link, to generations before us. L’dor vador — from generation to generation.


Most wonderfully, in this sanctuary, we can seek shelter from the noise of modern life—the “real world.” I make no bones about being a bit of a rebel. I have tattoos, I ride motorcycles, I listen to Guns ’n’ Roses. But none of that matters when I walk through the church doors, so I easily leave it all behind me. I crave disconnecting from all of the outside chaos to spend time in holiness and in conversation with God. Do you ever come and just sit in this beautiful place when it’s quiet? Try it sometime!


And….if you try it on a Tuesday or Wednesday afternoon from 5-6pm, you will hear the distant melodious strains of choristers practicing in the choir room. This is the opposite end of L’dor vador— not those who have come before us, rather those who come after. I feel privileged to be the next steward of this incredible and precious musical tradition, and I must do what I can to pass on not only musical knowledge, but a hunger for more.


How do we instill in children a hunger for more of this beautiful thing we call church? We offer the church whole, not watered down. We hand them this music, language, and liturgy openly. Sure, they won’t understand everything. But, children ask questions, and all they desire are honest answers. So give them honest answers! Children are capable of the most amazing things if given the opportunity. Present them with incredible and timeless music—there’s 1,000 years to choose from—and they will absorb it like sponges.


Remember, children don’t have the experience of adults to know what is difficult or what is not. I know that Herbert Howells wrote difficult music because I have been doing this for decades. But the choristers do not know that. To them it is just another piece of music. So, we teach it, they learn it, and they enjoy it. They feel accomplished and they await the next piece by Thomas Tallis. If you give them drivel, void of substance, they will tell you it’s mush.


While this job is all-encompassing, it is the children to whom we must pay special attention. Adult singers surely do not grow on trees, but so we must plant those seeds and help them grow. There are kids everywhere, and each one of them has the ability to sing, to contribute to a choir, to be part of this special community, and to raise our prayers heavenward.

Christmas Village - A MUST Experience

By Kate Chojnacki

Spotlight on The Christmas Shoppe

We are pleased that the Redeemer Christmas Village this year will have a tent called “The Christmas Shoppe.” This tent will offer beautiful products curated at the NYC gift show as well as some crafts that are the handiwork of parishioners both young and old. We will strive to offer delightful gifts as well as to highlight some of Redeemer’s creativity – all for a good cause. We are pleased to host craft hours this fall and encourage you to drop by Room 007 of the Parish House on Wednesdays from 10am – Noon. All Redeemer parishioners are welcome to join in the fun! If you would prefer to come in the evening, please reach out to Caroline Manogue, and she can arrange to meet you there…. Hope to see you soon!!


The 2023 Redeemer Christmas Village is Redeemer’s one-of-a-kind annual fundraising event aimed at supporting our community efforts. The Friday evening premiere party is THE event of the year to support Redeemer Outreach and serves to bring us together for the evening to celebrate our wonderful community.

Co-chairs Kate Chojnacki, Elisabeth Cooke and Caroline Manogue have what promises to be a fun and memorable evening planned, including indoor dining, entertainment and silent bidding on special and unique auction items. All proceeds go towards raising money for Redeemer’s many good works and partner organizations. Come celebrate and support Redeemer with us! 

THE REDEEMER CHRISTMAS VILLAGE IS ALWAYS A TEAM EFFORT!

Volunteers

Interested in helping? There are many opportunities to get involved! We will have in-person meetings throughout the fall every Monday evening from 7-8 pm in the Parish House. If you would like to help, contact Kate Chojnacki.

Sponsorships

Sponsorships for individuals and businesses are available at three levels. All sponsors will be invited to an exclusive kick-off event, The Patron’s Party, which will be an exciting celebration of our community’s support in early 2024. Sponsorships can also include prominent promotion and exposure at the Christmas Village as well as in all marketing efforts leading up to the event. If you are interested in learning more, contact Elisabeth Cooke.

Auction Items

Donating an auction item is one of the easiest ways to help! From unique experiences to gift cards, to event and travel tickets, to one-of-a-kind items, we are so grateful for all donations. Your donations will make the premiere party a success! If you would like an auction donation form, please contact Caroline Manogue.

Help Us to Create Decorations for the Village

We would love to have donations of: large baskets, corks, glass cylinder vases (wide ones especially), pine cones, and ornaments. There are boxes by the Parish House coat rack to accept your contributions.

Dates to Remember



October

6      Music Series Concert
         7pm Artcinia presents: 
        Timothy Schwartz, violin
         Thomas Weaver, piano


22-29 Redeemer Hosts
               Family Promise of the Main Line

November

5     5pm All Souls Service of Remembrance
        featuring The Redeemer Choirs
        presenting Requiem of
        Josef Rheinberger


17   Christmas Village – parish party


18   Christmas Village – public shopping


19    7pm Music Series Concert
         Our new Director of Music,
         Andrew Senn presents an organ recital


December

17     5pm A Service of Nine Lessons & Carols
          featuring The Redeemer Choirs


20    Red Cross Blood Drive

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Managing Editor: Ken Garner

Contributors this issue:

Peter Vanderveen, Rebecca Northington,
Jo Ann Jones, Barbara Billings, Winnie Smith, Andrew Senn
, Ken Garner

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